Father to the fatherless, defender of widows — this is God, whose dwelling is holy. God places the lonely in families.Psalms 68:5-6

Saturday, June 22, 2013

Greetings from Room 112

Greetings from room 112!  We've had another eventful week at our house and have found ourselves bonding over IV tubing and ice chips.  Mr. Scott's laid up recooperating from the effects of a ruptured appendix and thus a serious infection in his abdominal cavity.  He's headed in the right direction but we won't be going anywhere quickly, guess we will enjoy the quietness of no kids while we can and take advantage of the extra time on our hands to update everyone on what's up in our adoption world. 

First things first, we want to thank everyone once again for the tremendous support shown to us during our fundraising efforts.  The parties were a HUGE success and we are overwhelmingly humbled by your generosity.  EVERY purchase made is a blessing and an encouragement to us.  There are people we have never met, who thus know NOTHING about us, entrust us with donations and significant purchases, we stand in awe of God's promise to provide. It was fun to answer questions and share our story with those who asked as well.  Since the party, we have continued to receive orders and cards with checks and notes of encouragement, I hardly know how to respond (if you have encountered me in one of these "moments" I appologize for my social awkwardness, seriously I am stunned everytime this happens!).  NEVER in my life did I expect people to be so supportive, to give so willingly, to understand and support us in something that I thought few people had a passion about, I'm clearly wrong.  My ultimate goal for this process has always been that God would be glorified in everything step, decision, and action and that when given the chance we would properly represent Him and His will for us.  There is no doubt the actions of those who have surrounded us have fully glorified Him and I can only hope that we have done our job half that well.  Here are some fun totals of how things turned out!

Vibella Sales.....$1500!
Thirty-One Sales....$3600!
Donations....$795!

That all equals one AMAZING party!!  THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!!!!!

Outside of the fundraising we are happy to report that our home study visits are complete and we are currently waiting on my fingerprints to clear FBI (Scott's passed no problem but apparently I have faint fingerprints that the scanner won't read.  We've sent off my second set and are hoping these come through cleared soon).  Once the fingerprints pass we can fill in the blanks on the actual home study report and get that approved by the necessary people.  We will also then finish up the loose ends on the rest of the items that need to be submitted for the dossier.  What's left is easy stuff like pictures of our home/family and copies of things like passports etc.  At that point (when the dossier is complete) we will submit for translation and then it can be submitted to the courts in Ethiopia.  If approved, we then become an official "waiting" family.  Woohoo!  One of the things people ask about is what kind of a child/children we are open to and how many.  We have at this point put in writing that we are open to 1-2 children between the ages of 0-18 months at time of referral boy or girl.  We would like to maintain birthorder within our current family and these are the parameters that will allow us to do that. 

I think that's all the excitement I have for today and so I sign off in a spirit of thankfulness, even in the midst of unexpected bumps in the road this week.  God is good, all the time. 

Monday, June 10, 2013

Lord, I Need You

As we move into a week filled with fundraising and parties, nervousness and anxiety plague my heart.  I pray that we've done our part and I yearn for the faithfulness to trust God to do the rest.  The financial aspect of adoption has been a stressor for me and I have often found myself desperate for a way to make this all make sense on paper.  But you see that's not really what God wants me to learn from this challenge.  I know he's wanting me to sit back and let him "show me his stuff!" and being the human being I am, I often in some capacity send the same message right back to him.  Up until this point we have been able to make each payment that has been due, but by the time our dossier is approved later this summer, we will owe close to another $12,000, most of which I have no earthly idea as to where it will come from.  Just like anything else the Lord places in our life we have two choices as my mom would say, "you're either going to like it or lump it, you decide!"  So I've chosen to "like" it, to see it as a challenge of my faithfulness in my Creator, to sit back and trust that this is in His control, to realize that making myself vulnerable to my community and friends is going to be ok because He goes with me, to remember that this call in our life is so much bigger than anything I can manage myself, and so I'm hour by hour making the choice to trust God for all I need and honestly, it's a really great place to be...